What in the Court Date is going on............

So I am a blog stalker, right.......I lurk around on the Internet all day (while I am working)and read updates on everyone's adoption blogs.....court dates, referrals, travel plans, ect.. Recently, since waiting for my Court Date I have noticed that there are many other families from different agencies that have received their court dates days after accepting their referrals.......I'm talking fast. So I ask; What in the Court Date is going on with us? Sorry for the ranting, but my stomach hurts and my heart aches..........